Sooooooo….. my intuition was right.
The morning of Archie’s birthday, he was getting ready and came over to the bed where I was trying to get some last minute sleep before he left the house and he whispers: “For my birthday I want a BABY.” lol
I replied “I’m sure you do, but things don’t always work out quite how we plan. God has His own plan….” And so He did : )
Just 2 short hours after Archie left for work my water broke. I knew this was going to be the day. It wasn’t going to be like last time. My faith was much stonger this time and I had already surrendered everything to Him. I wasn’t trying to take control, but rather let things happen as they may.
So I called Archie at 10:30 while standing in a puddle of water on the bedroom floor and told him that he should get ready for his fabulous birthday!!! He asked me if I needed him to come home and I said no, that I had no regular comtractions yet… just hard and sporatic.
Well, little did I know that a half hour later I would be unable to talk and the contractions would be right on top of each other. I called him at 11:00am and said “Get. HOME…. NOWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
He made it home about 11:15 and we headed to the Birth Center. As soon as I walked through the doors Chris, our midwife knew I was ready.
It was just before noon and I was making my way down the long hall to the birth suite. When we got there, the tub was already full of warm water to deliver Archie’s birthday present : )
Archie and I got in the tub, him facing me and me trying to get in a groove to relax and begin the process of bringing a new life into this world… I was scared and excited all at the same time.
I immediately felt the urge to push, so I did. And surprisingly he was already crowning…
I will never forget the one thing that Chris said as I was right in the middle of the worst pain I felt yet… she says “STOP SCREAMING AND START PUSHING!!!”
I thought to myself “Who does she think she’s talking to???!!! I can scream if I WANT TO!!!!” All I could think about was that song “It’s My Party And I’ll Cry If I Want To” LOL
I still think about that moment and giggle to myself almost daily.
What I love most about Chris is that she knows me so well. That’s exactly what I needed to hear at that moment to push through the pain and deliver my husband the birthday gift he had been waiting for all these months. And that’s just what I did : )
Blake was born at 12:14pm weighing 11lbs, 5ozs and measuring 22.1/4″ long. Daddy is proud to say he pulled him out into this world and will forever share a birthday with his son, Mr. Blake.
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Here is a photo of Sal, the founder of the Breath of Life Birth Center, with Chris (the best midwife this side of the Mississippi) on the right, and Blake about an hour old : )![!IMG_1222](https://mudpiesandmilkshakes.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_1222.jpg?w=640&h=426)